For a big change in your life ... avoid all the people that analyze your actions… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
For a big change in your life ... avoid all the people that analyze your actions… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Sometimes in life ... you will need to understand that how you connect to the people around you ... you can also disconnect from them ... but also re connect anytime you want in the future.
People have the habit of seeing you in a specific way .... and seeing a change will intrigue them ... especially when that kind of change is not so easy to be implemented for them.
They will analyze your actions ... and will discuss with you and the others about what and why is happening.
And sometimes will even look as a .. trial ... and you might need to come with serious answers.
Questions as ... “Who do you think you are?!” ... “Have you lost you minds?!” ... will be part of what you will hear from all those people that will act as real judges of your life.
They will be close friends, familly members or even people that you know by a short time ... but they all might have this idea that they have the right to analyze your trend for change.
The whole picture is like ... you say ... “Yes, i can!” ... and they say ... “No, you can’t!”.
And i wonder why we should let them ... tell us what we can do and what we can’t do?!
Yes ... even if they are family members.
Usually what other people say ... is according with their standards ... and i ask ... why we should accept their standards as our own standards?!
And of course you won’t be able to get rid of all those people from your life, but you can avoid them for a while ... at least till you succeed to implement the change in the way you want.
Somehow the start will be easy ... but their negativity will have a huge impact on you if you let them analyze your actions.
So ... what is the trick?!
You can’t get rid of your mother and sister ... or the friend from school that lives now across the street ... but you can start thinking more about your right to be
whoever your want to be.
The simple trick can be ... just don’t tell them anything about change ... or avoid it as much as you can.
And if you can just disconnect for a while from them should be fantastic.
This way ... they will have no impact on you ... but this will happen only from the moment when you will understand that ... no one has the right to stop you from changing your life.
Learn the trick to wear the old mask and the new mask ... according where you are and who you speak with.
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